Page 1 Page 2 Page 3 Page 4 Page 5 Page 6 Page 7 Page 8 Page 9 Page 10 Page 11 Page 12 Page 13 Page 14 Page 15 Page 16 Page 17 Page 18Are You A Bully? If you recognize that you may be a bully, or are perhaps feeling badly about how you’ve treated others in the past, consider doing the following: Examine your motives. What have you done and why did you do it? Increase your empathy. Put yourself in another person’s shoes and try to imagine how he/she might feel. Find positive ways to be powerful. Look for positive ways to use your passion, strengths, and/or leadership skills. 1. Do you sometimes use your strength or size to get your way? 2. Do you say hurtful things to others? 3. Have you intentionally damaged someone’s property? 4. Have you sent hurtful messages? 5. Have you intimidated others in order to make them feel afraid? 6. Do you sometimes solve problems with force? 7. Have you told lies or spread rumors in order to damage someone’s reputation? 8. Do you want others to fear or respect you because you’re tough? Yes No If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, think about your behavior —and about what kind of person you want to be. BulliesCan Change feeling badly about how you’ve treated others in the past, “If it is not right, do not do it. If it is not true, do not say it.” Marcus Aurelius 11